A Lesson In Trust

A Lesson In Trust

Theatre doesn’t work if you don’t trust the people you’re working with. It makes sense: if you’re trying to perform with someone who cannot remember their lines, forgets their cues or simply has no respect for the team then the play just won’t take off. Something will jar. To put it more vividly… Continue reading

Under Pressure

Under Pressure

The assumption that my wife and I will soon have a baby follows us everywhere these days. It began even before we were married as our friends speculated pregnancy as the reason for our early marriage… Continue reading

Sharpening the Image

Sharpening the Image

I’ve realised recently that I’ve written a scarce amount about the most interesting thing in my life and the very reason I started this blog: my experiences of international marriage. Granted I’ve gone over various things relating to weddings and have even ventured into talking about the vastly complicated area of Korean culture. But this… Continue reading

Second Weddings and Blessings

Second Weddings and Blessings

As my wife and I had promised we headed back to the UK for our second wedding last January. Actually, it’s illegal to get married twice even to the same person in a different country, so we decided to have a blessing ceremony. It’s all the same but you do everything in the past tense … Continue reading

Party Noodles (잔치국수)

Party Noodles (잔치국수)

Plain but refreshing, these warm noodles easily fall apart in your mouth. A great snack but not quite enough to fill you up. Price: 3000 – 6000₩ Contents Janchi Guksu is based on very soft wheat noodles placed in a warm beef or anchovy broth. You might find the flavour enhanced with sesame oil, soy … Continue reading

Korean Weddings 3: What to Eat

If you have been invited to a wedding in Korea, you haven’t only been invited to attend the ceremony, give a cash gift and sit through a thousand stereotypes condensed into a forty minute spectacular, but also to celebrate the couple’s new life together over a meal. In the UK only a moderate number of … Continue reading

Korean Weddings 2: What to Give

At a Korean wedding… “It is usual to give at least 30,000W (which may cover the cost of your meal, about £15). Then, going up in steps, you could give 50, 100, 150 thousand Won, and so on. This is all very specific and impersonal, but it is seen as acceptable for two reasons.” …Read on to … Continue reading