Cunning [kuhn-ing]

– verb
(Konglish) to cheat or use one’s wits to gain the upper hand.

– noun
adeptness in performance; dexterity.

Emjay is Korean. Tom is British.

We got married on the 27th of June 2011, and are excited to share our experiences of an international marriage with you here.

We hope you can use this blog as a cheat-sheet to cunning (or ‘find’) your way safely through the joys and complications of international relationships.

Anything you want to know? Send us an email at tomandemjay@gmail.com 

Tom and Emjay just married at M Palace Wedding Hall, Mapo-gu.


We also headed back to England for a UK Blessing Service on the 28th January 2012. We really were blessed to be able to see and spend time with family who we haven’t seen in so long, and to catch up with long un-seen friends too. It was a really special day, and thank you to everyone who helped make it that way!

The Photos:

Follow this link (to Picasa) to find a selection of photos from the wedding day in Korea for you to enjoy~

Go here to see photos from the UK ceremony!

Tom and Emjay Got Married